Twin Flame Runner Chaser Myth

Twin Flame Runner or Chaser?

Ok, I am just going to say it. There is not a runner and a chaser in a true twin flame relationship. I believe that is a huge misconception and a trap that people fall into to justify a co-dependent situation and unacceptable behavior from their partners. In the true twin flame reunion each twin is going to need space and time to process the energy and awareness they experience upon reuniting. It will be a mutual agreement between the Divine feminine and masculine to take the time to integrate each other’s powerful energy. It will never ever feel like they are abandoning you, never to return. That is ego speaking and simply indicates you have not come to the inner truth of what love actually is. Everybody it seems is being told they are in the runner/chaser phase…seriously? Before this whole twin flame concept became ‘mainstream’, I used to call this co-dependency, time to set boundaries, and do your soul healing!

The twin flame union is meant to uplift and carry this 3D world into the 5D. If you do not understand what that means, please take the time to research the purpose of the twin flame union. Even though each twin is awakened and activated within themselves, they may be at different levels of this process on a 3D level. They need time and inner reflection to fully attune to what they are experiencing. From my research and personal experience this is natural and even necessary.

Twin flame separation is a conscious choice by one or the other or both. Although it is not always initially understood why this needs to take place, it is done with love and understanding that time is needed to adjust to the overwhelming energy of the union. If the person you believe to be your twin flame is ‘running’ from you by telling you to leave them alone or telling you they are not interested in exploring the connection or are with someone else or whatever their reasoning is, chances are, they are not your twin flame! Period! A true twin will want you in their life in some capacity, they simply cannot disconnect from the energy your union creates. They may not yet consciously understand the connection but they know you are a catalyst for them in a profound way, just as they are for you.

Please read this and understand: Twin flames are reuniting in this current timeline to serve humanity with their Divine energy! This energy radiates Divine love! People will feel it, be activated by it, be inspired by it! It is not just about you having some magical love relationship to make you feel better about your life. I feel so much pain for people that are genuinely searching for answers and get caught up and sidetracked with false information right now and I don’t know any other way to help except try and point you to the truth.

If you want to know the nature of your relationship with your partner, go within! Ask for your own personal signs. Pay attention to synchronicity around you. Pay attention to how you feel when you think of them. If you must continually seek confirmation from outside of yourself because you are always in fear and doubt, chances are you are in a karmic or soul mate relationship. We must all experience these other relationships before reuniting with our twin flame..(IF it is even time to reunite with our twin. Many souls are still evolving and have chosen not to ascend at this time. Their twin will not be incarnated on this timeline with them.)  Unless we experience the other types of relationships…and here is the key…LEARN from them, we cannot comprehend the purpose of reuniting with our twin. You will feel a strong urge to express the depth of your feelings for your twin regardless of whether that means they do not feel it. I promise you, a true twin will not run from this, not the way someone in a conventional 3D relationship we experience with soul mates or karmic mates will run.

Twin flame reunions are rare! Their purpose together is to shatter the social matrix programming of what love is supposed to be. Are you exemplifying that? Think about it please. Every relationship you have ever had will probably have been based on physical world needs. They will have been based on physical attraction, socially acceptability, who your parents and family approve of, material gains, other words whatever we are programmed to believe we are supposed to love and find in a relationship. If you are still treating your connection like every other relationship you have had, chances again are it is not a twin flame union!

Choosing to incarnate now together is not a love story the way we have been taught to believe love to be. Twin flames will be loner’s. They will march to their own beat. They will be system busters, rule breakers. They will see through the illusions of how we are controlled. They will have experienced things that most people don’t understand. They will have felt different all their lives. Not ego special different, but ‘I don’t fit in, I don’t want to be here’ different. They will feel they have some higher purpose to change something, yet no idea of what that really is. They will have been searching for ‘something’ all of their lives without really knowing what that something is. Relationships will be hard, many lessons. There is nothing normal or conventional about them. As individuals they will have stood out in some way and as a couple they will never go unnoticed. There will be some social norm they defy simply by being together.

A true twin will never deliberately set out to hurt you, ever! They will take steps to be sure you are a part of their lives, even if you are in separation, while they are working on themselves. Separation is for working on your own individual blockages and understanding of what you must do in order to fulfill your purpose. Again, twin flames are here to reunite for the good of all!

When in separation from your twin, you will not feel the same feelings a regular relationship separation tend to invoke. It really is that simple! If separation is draining your energy and making you feel afraid and obsessive, it is probably time to let that person go. Time to go within yourself and face the lessons you are still struggling with and avoiding. Your true twin flame has unconditional love for you and you for them and their actions will always show that to you. If you are separated and you are not busy working on your own life and soul searching for awakening and growth but instead focused on them and what they may or may not be doing, chances are they are not your twin flame. There is no runner/chaser. There is just separation to assimilate the combined energy you create together.

Also see my articles Have You Reunited With Your Twin Flame? , Twin Flame: Fairy Tale or Fact? and The Higher Purpose of a Twin Flame Relationship for further insight.

If you want to book a personal reading for more insight into the dynamics and blockages in your current relationship, please contact me. I am also compiling a book on twin flame stories and if you would just like to connect with me and share your story, please do. If you are a twin flame, you will know it, your relationship will reflect it and inspire others. I hope that we can gather together to share our experiences. Please leave your feedback on this article in the comments below.


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6 thoughts on “Twin Flame Runner Chaser Myth

  1. Pamela says:

    Finally something that sounds like truth and makes sense to me. Thank you. There is so much bull**** out there.

  2. Danielle Rigal says:

    Extraordinary ! I am very interested in telling you about my own story, and hope to take advices from you : what to do, continue on my own for an indefinite time, because of such ( apparent) different conciousness levels , or…what ?

  3. Wendy geer lindauer says:

    Im so afraid that maybe the man that i connect w isnt my twin flame because he has set out to hurt me and has seriously hurt me physically and took things from me that was irreplaceable. Im asking for help .im feeling so confused.

  4. Erin says:

    Thank you for clarifying what a twin flame is. I’ve been so frustrated with giving so much love to others, only to have them “say” that they want to return it only after they realize that I am not around and fulfilling their needs. They miss me when they notice that I am not there to make them happy and bring them up. When is it ever going to be reciprocated? :'( :(. I’ve mentally, emotionally and now physically broken and my only wish is to have someone in the universe give as much as I do back to me. Again.. thank you.

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