Twin Flame: Fairy Tale or Fact?
Twin flames are real and they are reuniting in the 3-D physical world as a gift to humanity by assisting in the earth ascension. Unfortunately most of the information being presented about the relationship is the fairy tale.
Twin flames incarnated together is a rare occurrence and I can say with a strong degree of certainty that unless your relationship is forcing you to grow, to go within to find love, you are very likely with a soulmate. Spending money on readings to be told this is or is not your twin flame is pointless unless you truly want the truth.
If you have to continually question whether or not your partner is your twin flame, more than likely they are not! I am doing more and more readings for twin flames it comes through almost immediately! I can feel the connection and also where they are at in their reunion. They want readings to confirm their already very strong inner knowing. I am finding many clients that have been told they are with their twin flame because that is what they wanted to hear despite the fact that they are actually with a soul mate or karma mate. Stop the madness please! I can help you find answers to your relationship issues regardless of whether it is your twin flame or not. Read my article on my own personal experience with my twin Below are some additional thoughts that may shed light for you.
The only person that can tell you if you have met your twin flame is you! Please read that again! After the dust settles and you have taken the time to move past the shock of the reunion and all the reflection it brings up, you will just know.
You will absolutely feel it on the deepest level of your being. Your initial reaction to how you handle the connection will tell as well. Even though there is an intense magnetic attraction it will ultimately bring all your core fears to surface. This tends to scare the couple and even force periods of separation. The intensity of the energy between the two is something neither have ever experienced and can be overwhelming. (More often than not twins activate each other’s kundalini or increase the awakening immensely) After the recognition and heart bonding phase, chances are you will try to logically find every reason in the known world for why you should not be with them! Why it would never work. They are too old, too young, too far away, not my type, from opposite religious background, my friends and family would never approve. The list is endless. There will be some barrier to overcome
In other twins this seems to be the common reaction. “We met, we had the most incredible attraction we have ever felt with anyone and then we got scared and tried to call it quits!” But they could not stop wanting to mutually be in each other’s life in some way, not for one moment! Both parties would be the so called “runner/chaser” as they learned how to deal with the power of the connection. I liken it to a pendulum swinging widely back and forth until it comes to a complete stop, neither one is actually running or chasing as in conventional soul mate/karmic relationships.
If you have truly met your twin, they will awaken and reveal all the dark corners of yourself that you have avoided up until the reunion. They will literally shake you to your very core, force you to open your eyes, to go within and do your shadow work. You will not be stressing about why he or she is doing such and such to hurt you. You will be asking yourself why does their actions and behavior affect me so deeply? What is it about myself that is triggered so deeply and how do I fix it? In other words, they force up and mirror back to you all your pain and dysfunction until that moment of meeting. This is done with an indescribable feeling of acceptance. The twin flame relationship is not about just finding someone to love. It is about finding out how to love yourself! Meeting your twin flame compels you to purge and transmute your own issues, not theirs. It is the hardest work you will ever do but it will be accelerated beyond anything you thought possible! It will awaken you to your true purpose in being alive in this 3D construct. It believe it has to scare you in order to awaken you from the facade you have called your life up to that point. It has to shake your foundation to the ground so you can rebuild yourself free of all your fears.
You will not reunite with your twin flame until you are ready for the truth…not only about yourself but life itself! The key is you will feel an unconditional love and acceptance from your twin that you have never felt from anyone else before. You will feel you have found someone that knows you to the core of your being and has no judgement of you. There will be no one else you feel this with, not your family, your friends or previous love connections. You will have a strong desire not only to live life but to decode the mysteries behind it. Despite the fear, this person will give you a sense of strength and determination that you have never felt before either. Most twins will not meet until they have faced a lot of karmic lessons and come to a place where they are not actively ‘seeking’ a relationship.
Twin flames are here to reunite and uplift the world with their combined energy. They are an example of what love is meant to be from a soul level and not what we have been led to believe from birth via social programming. They are here to bust the paradigm. There are no barriers to their love. Race, religion, age, social status, gender or any other judgments that normally halt relationships will not stop their union. They simply KNOW they are meant to be together because they have a purpose. If your relationship is truly a twin flame nothing will keep you from being together and fulfilling this purpose. Period. That purpose could be as great as doing volunteer work in 3rd world countries, helping the underprivileged within your own community, helping the environment, working with a charity, or simply inspiring the people around them in their every day world with their love. In other words it is about more than just your relationship with each other, it will be about being of service to the awakening and ascension of humanity itself!
Ask yourself a few of these questions:
- Does your relationship inspire you to want to change and be a better person?
- Does your relationship inspire trust in your partner to be vulnerable with them? Express deep feelings both positive and negative without fear they will judge you?
- Does your relationship inspire you to realize that love is not outside of yourself? We can only feel love and acceptance from others to the degree that will love and accept ourselves.
- Does your relationship inspire a deep feeling of wanting to see your partner stand in their own truth and power even if it is not your perception of what that should look like? In other words, no desire to change them in any way.
- Does your relationship invoke feelings of fear or anxiety? Not because you are afraid of losing them, but because you are afraid of finding yourself? You know you have no choice now but to do the work you came here to do.
- Did meeting your partner jar you to your very core with a feeling of eternal recognition? As if time stood still?
- Do you have deep and intense conversations that last hours and feel like minutes? Being with your twin somehow affects time for many.
- Is there some social or physical barrier to overcome? Religious upbringing? Age? Race? Gender? Twin flames are all about breaking the labels and judgement we have been forced to follow when it comes to who we can and cannot love.
- Does a vision of sharing a life with your partner involve desiring to create a better world for others?
- Does your relationship feel like it is ‘activating’ you? Shifting your perception to see behind the illusions of the world?
- Does their energy and presence always uplift you? If it drains you in any way, shape, or form, they are not your twin flame.
These are just some of the other signs of recognition of a twin flame union. If you can honestly say no to any one of those questions, you are more than likely with a soul mate or a karmic mate and not your twin flame. Soul mate relationships are valuable in their own way for learning our lessons and can be our family, dear friends, mentors, and partners. Karmic mates are the hardest relationships but also necessary. In order to comprehend love while in a physical body, we must experience the pain of separation via ego love. Without experiencing this, you are not able to comprehend it’s opposite, unconditional love. My own experience with soul mate and karmic relationships is they teach us all the examples of what love is not. Ego love manifests such things as fear of loss, fear of failure, shame, competition, jealousy, control, manipulation, abandonment, lust, judgment, material gain, pride, rejection, etc. There are so many toxic by-products that are presented as examples of love but may be necessary lessons none the less.
Since we are in a construct of perpetual karma and trapped here until we embody unconditional love and our true power, we literally reincarnate with these soul mates and karmic mates over and over. We become trapped by ego love because throughout incarnations we create deeper and deeper bonds to these souls. I can promise you that most people do not not even comprehend what unconditional love is, let alone practice it within their relationships. This is why it is of extreme importance to take time for self reflection and inner shadow work no matter what relationship you are in. As long as you are making it about anything or anyone outside yourself (blame, expectations etc.) you will not raise your vibration to a level where you attract your twin flame.
It is only our twin flame that finally reveals the path home as they hold the missing key to unlocking the experience of unconditional love we are capable of…a superpower that has been kept from us through the millennia. They activate us right down to our DNA codes dormant since the dawn of our creation.
We are at a time of great change and ascension to the next level of existence. We have the opportunity to free ourselves from the matrix we have been imprisoned in. The love energy generated from twin flame reunions and awakening is changing the world. It can’t be stopped. I know that may sound strange to anyone not in a twin flame relationship, which is probably another sign that you are not! If you have reunited with your twin flame, you will already know exactly what I am saying!
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